Soul Mate or Twin Flame?
I often hear people mention that their current partner, husband or wife is their soul mate, but what many people have never thought about is the same synchronicity between friends.
A Soul Mate is part of an overall group that you originally came from when you came into existence. In your past lives you may have been related to each other in different ways, mother, father, sister, cousins, friends, your current children could have been your peers. In what ever capacity you have chosen to incarnate for the human experience, you choose together to come back and support each other. You also may leave other members of your Soul Group behind to watch over you and guide you on your path.
Not everyone returns to human form with their soul mate, and further more not all Soul Mates find each other again. It all depend on what you need to learn from each other, what you are to learn from other people you encounter throughout your experience on earth and what you are to teach others.
The most popular phrase I have hear is, “I have found my soul mate”, meaning a physical, loving relationship, and these are probably the most common, but they are not always this way. Despite you finishing off each other’s sentences, liking the same food, holidays, friends, etc, many relationships between soul mates can be painful and far from loving and others can be very distant. Your soul mate could be living a “darker path” and perhaps needs you to help them see the light and vice versa. You will learn so much from your soul mate relationships, some will be incredibly painful, others total bliss.
Therefore a Soul Mate can easily be a close friend whom you never have a sexual relationship with, but still love unconditionally. The time may not be right for either soul to be together again, they may have to remain as friends to learn something from each other and come back in another lifetime to achieve the union. I once met two people who had all the attributes of Soul Mates, everything fell into place, but the time wasn’t right, they were both married with children. There was a huge sexual attraction, but they remained in control of themselves and rather than separating from their partners they worked through the lesson they had to face. I learned many years later that they did eventually end up together when one of their partners ended the marriage. Don’t get me wrong here, there was a lot of pain and discomfort, it was not an easy ride of either side knowing the love and synchronicity they had for their Soul Mate, but they had lessons to learn from someone else. This is why finding your soul mate is not based on sexual attraction. It’s all about the experience and the moment.
Twin Flames, Twin Souls, or Twin Rays
This is the ultimate union that all souls seek, to find their twin.
When the creation of your soul came about you were originally one, then split into two, and then joining a Soul Group. The separation was to form the yin and yang balance of male and female energy. No soul can survive without both. It is said that the male energy is 60% masculine and 40% feminine and the female is reversed. This can seem pretty daunting to most people, but if you can reach the balance within yourself and within your relationship it is a most wonderful and blissful feeling. The twin flame is part of the divine trinity of three and you will re-connect back to Divine spirit. The twin flame cannot exist in a co-dependent, ego-based relationship, they cannot live within jealousy, fear of losing one another, issues of separation and lack of love. They must both be independent from each other and able to survive without each other successfully. They will need to have had many experiences, and healed themselves of all that is negative within a relationship and helped to heal others, balance their energy and often face long periods of separation whilst they maintain the strength in themselves and in each other. Before they can join they must solid as rocks in every part of their being. Letting go of all insecurities, worries, fears, anger. Once this period is completed then the two souls can look to integrate in unconditional love.
Not all twin souls will find each other and unite on earth. In fact it’s very rare, but with the new energies and the higher levels of vibrations available more Souls are coming back together again to share in the ascension experience. Before you go rushing off to build a “Twin Flame Detector” and offer you services of finding them, some twin flames may not even be on the earth plane at the same time, they could be in another reality or consciousness gaining further experience to bring back to the “one-ness” at a later time.
There is a deep psychic synchronicity to twin flames far bigger than Soul Mates. They will know how the other feels at anytime, will finish sentences and share the same interests on many levels and feel they just belong to each other unconditionally as part of something far greater – once again without the need for a sexual relationship, but in true unconditional love. There is no separation between them, they are each other, they are lost without each other. Synchronicity is like Divine Spirit prodding you both to wake up and see each other for who you are – you will know if you have found your Twin Flame. Remember you have had many lifetimes together experiencing as much as possible and may have many more. You will use the experiences you have learned and gained in helping others, especially in the Ascension.
Have You Met Yours Yet ?
I have been asked by many people how would they know if they had met their Twin Flame, to which I have replied, “if you are asking me this, then you haven’t yet”. The meeting of your Twin Flame will be so profound, so moving you will just “know”, you will feel both your heart chakras bursting out of your chest in deep love for them. BUT, even though you may find each other it doesn’t mean you are have both evolved enough to pair up The longing and desire to be with your Twin Soul is intense, but it is not to be confused in anyway with a desire to ”possess” or to be obsesses with you other half. It is how you face the challenge of loving someone unconditionally.
So, there you have it. This is obviously my opinion and interpretation given to me by spirit over several years. As we evolve so the vibrations of Soul Mate and Twin Flame change, and these vibrations are also changing with the Ascension of Earth.
In Light, Love & Peace, Namaste